On Saturday, April 21st, we (including Donna) took the kids to Blacksburg for the "Hokies United Community Picnic and Reflection Gathering". We met up with Kel & Donna’s college roommate, Cathy and her S.O. Suzanne.
Kel has such a strong connection to her alma mater (unlike me) that the tragedy impacted her almost as much as if she was still a student. It was important to reestablish that connection to even start the healing process.
First we checked out the mementos, photos, and personal objects brought by the students and people that knew the victims of the slaying. (Kel, Donna & Cathy are on the left.)
It was a beautiful day and Dyson’s spirits were too ebullient for such a somber occasion. Since I have no direct connection to Tech (other than Kel, of course), I took Dyson where he could clown around without annoying those in mourning…
We got there pretty early. Like students everywhere, the bulk of the crowd didn’t show up until towards the end of the event. But, even while we were still there, the crowd started to dramatically grow.
After Kel and the gang (including Keira) checked out the memorials and some other stuff, we got back together to grab a bite from the tents set up by the local Blacksburg restaurants. Keira was ready, by then, to put aside the seriousness. So she & Dyson played a wee bit of football…
I saw this sign on all of the entrances to the dorms and classroom buildings. I think it is a sad and ugly statement about our society that such an obvious courtesy needs to be so explicitly expressed. Sigh…
I’m still not sure why this bothers me, but the only news agency that I saw grilling students and other mourners was from KBS, a Korean TV network. I certainly don’t hold the actions of a deranged individual against the country of South Korea, not even slightly. But KBS, by flying the news crew over from Korea, seems to be taking claim of the shooter (if you didn’t know, he was ethnic Korean, born in Korea, raised in the US since age 8) on behalf of their audience. It seems even more vulture-like than most TV news crap. (And, yes, Kel is unfortunately associated with our local vultures. Until she makes it big as a writer, of course…)
After a quick perusal of the food stands, we decided we could afford going to a restaurant where the lines weren’t so intimidating. We met up with another of Kel & Donna’s college friends (now on the staff at Tech) and had dinner. (For some reason, Keira didn’t feel well and I jumped on the opportunity (I was feeling crappy) to go sit in the car…)
















